Have Any Of These Happened To You?
Emmett:"...And I would pick what would be probably the worst person in the world to do a relationship with..."
Vivian"I'd be upset all of a sudden for no reason. I don't know why. And I'm like, That was weird. Why did I act like that?..."
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There Is An Answer... And It Will Change Your Life.
Problem With Relationships?
BEFORE
I'd been dating this guy who was not a great guy, and I'd been with him for about five years and I could
not let go of him. I couldn't. I knew he was wrong for me. I knew I didn't actually want to be with him,
but I couldn't not be with him. It was like out of my control.
AFTER
So I was actually able to realize, No, I don't want to be with this guy and I can stop being with him. And
I was able to put an end to that and move on with my life and opened the door to actually having a great
relationship with my husband. It was a big part of me having three wonderful births. My kids are amazing.
Of course, every mom says that, but they really, truly are. And everything I read in that book is part of
what I do.
What Is The True Source of Anxiety?
BEFORE
There was an injury, you know, when I was a kid, cut my knee open. It wasn't the knee that was painful.
The painful part was the embarrassment, because the girl that I had a crush on was there and saw me being
tended to. It was that feeling of helpless. That actually is what stuck with me. The reactive mind was
just connecting it. Here's a girl. Here's a moment of you being weak. You have to be stronger. You have to
do this. You have to build walls. You have to be a man. You have to be. So, we get to the root of it.
AFTER
Boom! All that, that connection just releases. It's gone. I came out of there calm. I was just me. I said,
Hey, everyone, I'm just me.
Can’t Let Go of Your Fears?
BEFORE
I was so insecure, I had no friends. I just wanted to be liked. And I was just really, you know,
introverted and I wanted to be a singer. And I couldn't I could barely talk to people.
AFTER
So I have I can communicate with people. I can get up on stage and not be shy. I have friends, tons of
friends all over the world, and I don't have problems making friends at all. It's completely different. I
don't know how people live without this. Not even kidding.
Can’t Let Go of Your Losses?
BEFORE
Had several losses. My mom died of cancer. My dad committed suicide. And then I lost a son. I lost a baby.
I mean, I was constantly crying. I mean, a commercial would come on and I would cry. I would see something
and I would cry.
AFTER
…and I could start to breathe and I could start to work again. I'm not moving through mud because I felt
like because of all of the losses that I had in my life, I was moving through mud. And now I can actually
breathe and look and I have a joy and excitement and I have like just this energy, this dynamic drive that
I just didn't have before.
Why Don’t My Relationships Work?
BEFORE: I mean, I was doing really well in many areas of my life, except in relationships. And I would pick what would be probably the worst person in the world to do a relationship with. And then after being with them for a period of time, I would get a lot of evidence that this is the wrong person for me to be with, but I just couldn't end it. I thought for sure I was going to be a bachelor. One of those guys the rest of my life.
AFTER: And ever since then and it was like one session, one like, and it was like 30 minutes and it was like that big of a change. Because it was right at the core of what I really wanted to have in life, a loving, beautiful relationship. And that got fixed was one, one moment in time and it was gone. And it was like, Man, I got my attention.
What Is The Real Cause of Depression?
BEFORE: I had an issue with anxiety and depression since I was about ten years old, and it was there until I was about forty-five. So, it was a very long decades of anxiety and depression. And you just never knew when, like the anxiety was going to turn on and you were going to be have your car pulled over having a panic attack.
AFTER: And now the anxiety and depression that were so gut wrenchingly difficult at times in my life is just completely gone.
How Do You Reach Your Full Potential?
BEFORE: After an injury I sustained when I was about 12 years old. It sort of put a damper on the way that I approach life. There was sort of this longing to return to what I had had before in terms of my ability to communicate more freely. And I had lost that. And it was this thing that I carried with me for literally decades. I didn't realize how much of my life force, my negative emotions, had been trapped.
AFTER: It was a burst of joy, really tears of happiness that I regained. This portion of my life—I was a changed person.
What is Happiness?
BEFORE: I am here in Costa Rica. People dream of it. And I was like, wow, this literally I had this aha moment where I was like, this is my happy place and I'm not happy. I can't go on like this, you know, where it's like, I'm just looking for an outside source to create the happiness.
AFTER: This is the first time I've been my entire life and happy for no reason, other people might be like, Oh, shouldn't you have like the perfect marriage and all the kids and things? And like, I was just feeling this internal glow, this is magic. Like, this is what I've wanted my whole life. I was in my car and I was like, Oh my God, it's the first time I’ve been happy for no reason. In, like my entire life. I cannot believe this was possible.
